Lead from the Outside: How to Build Your Future and Make Real Change

Abrams argues that fear is a major stumbling block in one’s journey toward success—however the individual may define success. Fear manifests in overwhelm about the scope of one’s dreams (Should I aim that high?) or whether one even deserves to dare to dream (Is this too grand for someone like me?); manifests in a lack of self-confidence about one’s ability to do the work and do it well (I don’t have the pedigree and traditional experience required) and a struggle against others’ negative expectations and perceptions (They don’t believe someone like me can do it); manifests in impatience with how long it takes for the dream to be realized (I thought I would have it by now) and discouragement when early failures come (Should I quit while I’m behind?); and manifests in a worry about actually achieving the goal (All eyes are on me) and the host of expectations that arise from that level of visibility. Abrams is careful to validate these manifestations of fear early and often in the book. She tells readers that the conditions that produce these feelings are real, and they have the power to keep readers meek and stagnant in a situation too narrow for the free exploration and full exercise of their potential.